#NoinNovember Challenge Year One Recap.

Last year I was inspired by Joe Rogan’s #SoberinOctober challenge with his friends. I felt inspired to create my own for November, last year this was my first 30 day challenge to myself.

November is almost upon us again. I haven’t planned what I’m going to do yet, but I would like to review what changes, good habits and behaviours are still in affect from last year’s self imposed challenge. These 30 items, some were just a little bit of fun, some created limits and acts of mindfulness. Importantly, they were meant to remove distractions and allow me to focus on what was important to me. How did I score?

Last year’s November challenge list (shorted, but full list here - ):

No...

  • coffee - TODAY - Only 1-2 a month. WIN

  • to eating carbs - TODAY - I have cut down and I deliberately buy small ice-cream portions instead of convincing myself a larger tub at a better price is better ‘value’. What is the value really? WIN

  • to sleeping after 10pm - TODAY - I’m even aiming for 9:30 where work allows me. HALF

  • to eating sugar - TODAY - I barely eat even dark chocolate, i’ve switched to Cacao! WIN

  • to shaving - TODAY - I’ll do November again. WIN

  • to gaming unless on the MTR - TODAY - I have a kindle and actually read more than I did last year. I have discovered BOOM Beach though.

  • to missing the gym (12 sessions in the month) - I need to get my ass back in the gym. - TODAY - I actually quit the gym (due to expense, rather than laziness) and it’s even harder to be self motivated doing stuff at home. FAIL

  • to not creating a schedule - a proper schedule will allow me to fit my life changes in*. - TODAY - I never created a schedule that worked. FAIL

  • to spending any money unless it is transport or food related - TODAY - I’ve increased my saving by 100 US Dollars a month. Up to 900 now. I have wasted other money though. Saved $4000USD, a huge WIN.

  • to saving articles instead of reading them. - TODAY - I am saving less, but not saving enough. HALF

  • to porn - TODAY - Of course FAIL.

  • to masturbation, only sex - TODAY - Of course FAIL.

  • to saying no to things (especially to Rea) - TODAY - This double negative is hard to shake, but important I keep it for next year. I say no to Rea a lot, I'm making an attempt at making up for it. This one is for you again Rea x. FAIL

  • to Facebook for the whole month - TODAY - Bitch, I DELETED FACEBOOK! WIN

  • to Twitter for no longer than 30 minutes on desktop. - TODAY - Couldn’t delete the app because I needed the login details for another App (Periscope). HALF

  • to WhatsApp on my phone - TODAY - Deleted WhatsApp for personal use! WIN

  • to Reddit for no longer than 30 minutes on desktop - TODAY - I did delete the app, but then I brought it back and in the last month, I’m forever using it, but I did unsubscribe from half the reddit groups I was in. Let’s remember to be mindful again. HALF

  • to Facebook messenger - TODAY - Deleted! WIN

  • to Dating apps - TODAY - Deleted! WIN

  • to swearing - TODAY - I still swear. FAIL

  • to eating out unless Saturday (because of schedule) - TODAY - I have cut back a lot. HALF

  • to less than 4 swim sessions in the month - TODAY - FAIL

  • to using the phone when walking - TODAY - I barely do this anymore and get annoyed at others for doing it. WIN

  • to buying of plastic bottles - TODAY - I don’t buy plastic bottles. WIN

  • less than 5 mins of meditation for five mins a day - TODAY - FAIL

  • less than 5 mins of stretching every day - TODAY - FAIL

  • going without a day telling Rea I love her - TODAY - I do say it more often just on principle. WIN

  • less than 4 Mandarin classes in November - TODAY - I am learning Mandarin, it took me a while to get back on track however. HALF

  • effort spared in trying to write down my dreams - TODAY - I didn’t write down a single one. FAIL

  • electrical products after 9pm - TODAY - Life has a way of saying no and you keep checking things or watching one more video. FAIL.


WINS = 12 FAILS = 11 HALVES = 6

In this quick summary there were some big wins to be had, I removed a lot of time wasting distractions from my phone, and made huge savings when it came to holding on to my money for those rainy days. I definitely made plenty of refinements, not so much huge changes. I do feel my time wasn’t entirely co-ordinated as well as could be. Twelve ‘wins’ isn’t good, it’s a decent start. I think this time I should get 2/3rds of what I set myself as a ‘win’.

I didn’t ask anybody to join in with me last year, some viewers from Periscope were inspired and did set themselves little challenges, I hope to get more people to join in this year and will be telling viewers on Periscope.

I’ll be creating a new list for next month soon and posting it here.

For Thanos: How to be less of a Complete Bastard.

I just want to quickly touch on one aspect of the movie, which was Thanos’ end goal: lowering the population of the universe so the other half could survive, avert disaster and live in ‘paradise’.

Thanos as the ‘bad guy’ in the film, is given an arc which many people can be sympathetic towards by being a fleshed out individual with genuine motivations with some sense. As a ‘bad guy’ he doesn’t even want to rule over overs. Thanos isn’t ‘bad’ just for the sake of being bad. For comparison I don’t even remember who the enemy was in ‘Justice League’, he was unremarkable, I also don’t remember the ‘why’, I only remember he wanted complete dominion over existence. Yawn.

See also Noah’s Ark, these ideas aren’t new or as well written.

Thanos is written well in what seems a hat trick for Marvel, we had Vulture in Spiderman, War Monger in Black Panther, and I can only hope these serve as the baseline for what an antagonists can be for future Marvel movies.

During the Infinity War, Thanos notes, that to eliminate half of those living in all existence, it should be fair, random, without judgement on who is rich and who is poor, who contributes and who doesn’t. Clearly he’s given it some moral and ethical thought to maybe get people on his side, regardless of the physical resistance he receives.

I find myself agreeing with Thanos as over population is something I think about and currently believe there are too many of us on Earth to our detriment.

Here is where I say, “but”.

But with the power of all the Infinity Stones at Thanos’ disposal, couldn’t he have made his quest less painful for everyone involved and possibly in the process received less resistance? He didn’t need to kill half of everyone. Why was he rushing? Thanos still gets to go to his paradise afterwards once the de-population button is pressed. Those were two different objectives he had, they didn’t depend on each other.

What if upon acquiring the Infinity Stones, Thanos just decided to make half of all life, present and future, infertile? Meaning people have sex and nothing happens, no babies because of a random form of contraception? Nobody would need to die other than through naturally dying of old age. What would have played out then?

Apple WWDC Keynote 2018 Wishlist

I can’t ask for much in the way of hardware, if I do, Apple is only going to disappoint and Apple won’t even release hardware on a regular schedule anymore.

One thing they are on a regular timetable for however, are software updates. Every year WWDC rolls along and I hope and pray they add some things to the core of iOS to make my life and hopefully all our lives easier. Here is my eclectic list of 11 items I want included this year.

 Thanks Apple, thanks 3rd party dev!

Thanks Apple, thanks 3rd party dev!

  1. Change the way the volume is represented on screen, some apps are taking to doing it themselves and some don’t, so it’s really jarring when you have an app that doesn’t want the volume to stay off the screen with a giant square obstructing your view. Apple needs a new default representation, it hasn’t been changed since the first iPhone. I’ve been waiting for far too many years now for Apple to fix one of the most obvious visual lemmings on iOS.
  2. Stop having the phone app take over the entire screen when you get a call. Especially when you’re doing something critical. This gets progressively worse as the phone becomes less of a phone and instead a utility power house from shooting videos, broadcasting a live stream, to editing media clips, writing and much more. So many times I’m screen recording or viewing something and it just jumps into view like a charity mugger when you’re walking down the street. Fuck off!

  3. Duh, darkmode.

  4. My emails are supposed to be in the cloud, but many emails for me are still on a particular device. Let’s say I replied to an email on my Mac, I won’t be able to find it on my phone, I have to look it up on the original device. I thought everything was synced?

  5. Say I’m listening to music on my bluetooth Beats headphones and at the exact same time I get a call that I actually want to answer, the call goes to the phone, not the headphones. So every single time I take a call, I can either take the headphones out of my ears and put the phone to my ear or I have to tap on the screen to select the headphone for audio output. Why?

  6. Put the fucking camera settings in the camera app.

  7. Dvorak keyboard please as an option, why not already if you have had Cherokee since the iPhone launched?

  8. Pull to refresh on Safari.

  9. Quoting in iMessages, just like Whatsapp. It would be nice if iMessages was updated outside of the regular iOS releases, a once a year update isn’t fast enough.

  10. (Not really iOS) For some reason, pulling images out of Photos (on the Mac) destroys the metadata for ‘date created’. While the image is inside the Photos App, the original date is still present, but pull the photo out and into a folder, and the system creates a new date inside the photo file while preserving all other metadata. Why?

  11. Let me have a toggle so I can hide ALL notifications quickly at once rather than on a per app basis.

Let’s check back after the keynote and see how Apple did, none of these are huge requests, just the little details their famous for.